The Intentional Threesome
Threesomes are high risk, high reward.
According to recent research, threesomes are among the most popular fantasies.
Given the pleasure potential that a threesome can offer, this is unsurprising.
But successfully navigating this sought-after sexual experience can be much more complex than expected.
The joys & the pitfalls of the fabled threesome…
Yes, threesomes offers many wonderful opportunities. More body parts and combinations to play with. The possibility of exploring same-sex interaction. Deeper connection and intimacy. A window into non-monogamy for otherwise monogamous couples.
But the idealized threesome hides the many potential pitfalls. Latent jealousy popping up. Relational dynamics becoming challenging. The role of intoxication in compromising the experience. Expectations not being met.
These can be devastating to individuals and relationships.
The Intentional Threesome Program sets you up to go into a group sex experience with a deeper understanding of your desires and motivations, your blind spots, and what you need to feel as secure and sexy as possible.
“Generally speaking, more communication is always better in terms of reducing the risk of some of those negative outcomes [of threesomes]”
— Dr. Justin Lehmiller, Sex & Psychology Podcast
What does the Intentional Threesome Program entail?
This program is designed for couples looking to have a threesome but can also be adapted for an individual
I. Foundation
We lay the foundation for having a rewarding and exhilarating threesome experience. This includes exploring your motivations, discussing expectations and boundaries, practicing communication tools, and more.
Recommended 2-3 sessions.
II. Body
Take the talk to another level. Practices of breathwork, developing body pride to overcome insecurities, sensory focus, and more help you feel into your body before the main event. This can take some of the undesirable surprises out of the actual experience.
Recommended 2-4 sessions.
III. Exploration & Integration
You’re now solidly equipped to go forth and seek out your threesome experience! So where to find it? Who to ask? How to ask? Additionally, an “integration” session following a threesome experience can be useful to reflect on what worked and what didn’t.
Recommended 1-2 sessions.
The program is tailored to your specific needs, so some or all three of these parts may be included. This is established in your consultation call and intake.